Just imagine you were invited to a buffet. When you arrive at the venue, the door to the hall was thrown wide open.
No one asking for ID.
People just stepped in at will.
Many people hung around the door.
People from all races are all over the place.
White, black, yellow, red or green. You name it, you find it.
As you step in, you notice more people from different races.
You see whites, blacks, Hispanic, red Indians, American and Africans. Everyone.
They sit around all over the place.
Some people are on their feet.
The hall is filled to the brim like a molue bus…but more people come in and go out at will.
You look around and notice people eating food.
No one served them. They just walked towards a direction and came back with food.
So you move in that direction…and right in the middle of the room, you see a GIANT table. As big as a football field.
You see all kinds of food on the table.
All kinds of drinks. Exotic wines and all.
As you move close, you see a huge sign high above the table.
Come And Eat As You Like.
The rule was simple.
Eat your fill.
No one was standing by to wait on you. No one was around to serve you.
All you needed to do was step up and fill your plate.
As You Try To Make Your Move …Crazy Ideas Jump Into Your Head.
You start asking yourself stupid questions.
“What if my clothes is rumple and people are watching me”
“What if someone is watching me walk to the table?”
“What if I stumble?”
“What if I can’t scoop enough?”
“What if I scoop too much?
What if I scoop only chicken will people get angry?
What if the plate is dirty?
What if the food is not sweet?
What if they don’t have pounded yam?
Won’t the other guys laugh at me when I eat Garri and soup?
You Generate 100s Of Reasons Why Heading To The Table Will End In Disaster …So You Stop Halfway.
You look around and notice other guys also stopping halfway. Most of them also have the same fears you have.
They have 100s of reasons why stepping to the table will end badly.
BUT …as you watch …you see some people confidently walk to the table and scoop up food.
Funny thing is they don’t look smart.
One fat guy looked like the devil just pushed him out of his ass.
But …the guy no send…him just de move go scoop him food the wack. While you de dia de contemplate.
Ok, Mk, What Does This Have To Do With Online Business And Making Money Online?
Let me explain.
You see, life, business and entrepreneurship (and making money online or doing anything) is exactly like the buffet hall.
No one gives a shit about how you look, where you came from or anything.
No one is going to serve you. No one is going to do boy boy for YOU.
Either you go in and scoop food and eat…or you stay hungry and die.
Either You Go Online And Provide Value …Then Get Paid For It…Or You Stay Broke And Hungry.
No one cares if you are black or white. Everyone cares what you can do for him or her.
Success is not a racist.
It does not give a shit who you are or what you are.
So either you step up and scoop the food or you starve.
Either you create something that will bring value to others…or you stay there.
Either you become a producer or you continue consuming.
I am not saying this to brag or prove that am better.
But the truth is…success favours the BOLD.
The Person Who Decides To Start Stuff Without Fear Of Failure…Will Fail Many Times And Will Also Succeed Many Times.
The wise guy who is scared of everything …will not fail…and will not succeed either.
Success and failure goes together…like the 2 sides of a coin.
You can’t have one side only.
The Guy Who Does Not Give A Shit About What People Say…Will Succeed And Also Have Some Failure.
What’s the word that defines all this plenty talk?
Confidence even in the face of failure.
Confidence to do stuff.
Confidence to take action …even if you know you may fail.
I Must Confess, I Sometimes Fight With Confidence Issues Too.
Case in point.
I have lots of products here www.NairaCow.com/products
But for some reason…I was scared of selling WSOs and even selling my IM products to foreigners.
You know, sometimes we black folks have stupid inferiority complex.
Perhaps you are struggling with this too.
Anyways…I finally overcame it.
So in December 2014, I decided to launch 1 product a week in 2015.
That’s when I finally started launching WSOs.
By the way here are my WSOs…for those who want to buy it.
- 100 products ideas
- 101 profitable niches
- IM productivity Accelerator
- List Building Messiah
I got more coming
(If you love to order any and you have no PayPal account, contact me to order offline.)
So I broke through that crappy inferiority complex.
Like I keep saying…I am not perfect.
I learn every day. I try to move forward as fast as I can.
Do the same in your life and in your quest to make money online.
We all have fears.
But if you worry about other people…you won’t make shit.
What Are You Scared Of Doing Now.
- List building ( are you scared of what to mail people)
- Products creation (are you scared of making mistakes)
- Copywriting (you don’t know what to do)
- Traffic generation
- Online advertising
- Blog creation
- Affiliate marketing
- Freelancing on Fiverr
Say to yourself …I can do this.
Don’t let what people say bother you much. Add value to others…listen sometime…but don’t let it put you down.
Here’s an example.
If you hate the fact that I am cursing…well…
Get off my blog.
If I need to curse to get this point across …then so be it.
Where were we?
Have an I-don’t-care-altitude.
Do shit that will bring value to people …the get paid for it.
Am not saying you cheat or have no respect for people. I am not saying go curse and swear at people.
Or be disrespectful to your clients. (I treat my customers like gold ;)).
All I am saying is this…grow BALLS.
Do shit you are scared of.
Don’t let self-doubt kill your success.
Go for it.
There’s a flip side though.
Remember the basic always.
- Start with foundation knowledge (confidently doing the wrong things can help a lil..you’ll waste time and money). Get NOBFC…and save yourself time and money.
- Stick to one thing (don’t go doing all the business models at once, you will fail woefully)
- Commit to it. Get a coach or a comprehensive product on the model and digest it. Don’t deviate till you succeed.
Buy remember in anything you do online…
MY GUY…BUILD A Fucking A LIST
Go into the inter webs…and kick ass.
Omo …this one long o.